| "for obvious reasons...money." |
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| A child needs a mother- mother should be home when chil comes out of school when its young |
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| Already noted - would work parttime during school hours |
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| As a lone parent I would opt to do my best if possible. |
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| As the child will begoing to school,she has the time to work-part-time-as long as she picks child up from school etc |
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| BECAUSE THERE WOULD BE NO REASON FOR ME TO STAY AT HOME PROVIDED I HAD SOMEONE TO PICK UP THE HILD |
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| Because I can afford it |
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| Because I would have a need to go out to work for my own personal needs as well as for financial reasons |
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| Because benefit would not be enough |
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| Because it is your own child and own responsibility to support it |
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| Because its my job to look after ny child and myself rather than the state |
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| Because less time looking after child ,you have more time to financialy look after the child |
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| Because money most people earn at that stage is less than if they were on state benefit |
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| Because she is responsible for improving her situation |
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| Because they're my children |
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| Because we brought in world, They are our responsibly. |
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| Because you can work during the hours they are at school |
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| Because you have responsibility to children both financilaly and socially |
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| Better for mother & child |
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| Better for the child / way - upbringing - more stability, with people they know. |
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| Better living standard |
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| Better to support te child |
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| Better you do something else than sitting round the house,social inter-action is good |
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| Bonding is important in the first few years |
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| Child couldn't look after itself at that age! |
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| Child needs their Mother |
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| Child should be looked after as a first prioity at this age . |
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| Child should not come back to empty house . Care should not be delegated |
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| Child there because of me |
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| Children need a mother available at all times |
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| Children need their mother to look after them at home |
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| Circumstances can vary and domestic circumstances |
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| DEPEND ON CHILDRENS CIRCUMSTANCES |
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| DEPENDS ON THE PARTICULAR SITUATION |
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| DEPENDS ON THSCENARIO |
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| Daughter too young to come home alone.No one at home to look after the children. |
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| Depends om whether the girl got pregnant on purpose.If the man has left it is different matter |
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| Depends on circumstances at the time & what is best for the child. |
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| Depends on circumstances. |
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| Depends on circumstances. Interest of the child would come first. |
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| Disagree with the idea that the taxpayer should support me. |
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| Don't know |
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| Duty faqlls both ways |
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| Each case is different |
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| Ensure best for child |
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| Everyone else does |
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| Evey person is an individual & should have choice. |
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| Extremely inportant that children go up in as stable an environment as possible, which you cannot do if you have a job |
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| Finance - would go out to work if enough money to support child care |
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| For financial reasons |
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| For one thing it gives you your independence.Rather than stay at homr you should get a job. If you have got a child at school what are they going to do all day. |
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| For your own satisfaction. I think its right - if you have the opportunity it is right to do it - it gives you respect |
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| For your own self respect |
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| Freedom of choice subject to suitable care |
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| Having been a lone parent one need the money, also work gives a sense on sanity and companionship and financial security. |
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| I am responsible; not the business of the state |
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| I can't really, .. if the child is in school, you won't be needed between 9 and 3 by the child, who is being looked after by the school,so there's no reason why you can't go out and get a part-time jo |
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| I could give a better lifestyle to my child |
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| I did it myself |
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| I feel strongly that children are palmed off to other people to readily. One should not abdicate ones parental reszponsibility. |
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1 |
| I feel that some lone mothers stay at home on purpose |
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| I have always worked so should she |
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| I like to be independent and bring up child myself |
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| I should not want to depend on Govt to keepp child if I was capable of work mysels |
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| I think if you are the only parent you should be there at all times for the child, barring school hours. |
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| I think if you have a child its very necessary to have mother around up until school age |
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| I think once at school age have a better opp. to go out and earn money, more difficult when under school age |
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| I think the child needs the suport of the mother with her at home when she gets home from school |
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| I think the child needs treats - ie christmas presents |
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| I think there's too much reliance on the state, everyone expects the state to help and it's wrong. |
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| I think you can do both by working part time so that you are at home when child comes home from school |
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| I went to work when my children were small |
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| I would feel it was up to the person to do what was appropriate in their circumstances |
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| I would not like to depend on the state to provide for me and my child |
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| I would think because I am materialistic, I like things, I think I should work to get them, not just have them given to me by some one or some body else |
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| I'd feel I should work to support thechild, rather than letting some one else do it, provided that there was some one to look after the child(ren) |
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| I'd feel that at that age, bonding was very important |
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| I'd hate being in receipt of charity - as long as I could work suitable hours.The child is paramount. |
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| I'd want to be at ho9me wi8th the child when he/she got home from schoo0l, rather than them finding an empty house |
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| I'd want to be home for the child after school, but I'd like to be independant and earn money |
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| IT DEEPENS UPON THE INDIVIDUAL CASE |
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| Ido not think she has a duty to do one or the other. I don't think either should be called a duty. |
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| If the child has gone to school then its sensible to go ou |
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| If you are going to have children you should be committed and be there for them all the time |
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| If you are the only parent your child could feel unwanted if you go out to work |
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| If you cannot look after a child you should not have them |
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1 |
| If you choose to have children you should suport them, otherwise don't have children |
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1 |
| If youre a lone par4e3nt I'd feel the responsibility of needing to be the bread winner |
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| It is her child and she should not expect to spend her life being supported by everybody else |
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1 |
| It is up to inderviduals, Im past it |
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1 |
| Its yoour child so you have to be parentally responsible |
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1 |
| Ive been in situation and felt i needed to support my child, but at the same time i felt i needed some government support |
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1 |
| Iwould want to look after the kids but I would like to earn more money. I would have to wait and see what happened in real life at the time |
|
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| Just to make sure they get the things they want & need |
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1 |
| Lessen the burden on the state and as a matter of pride |
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| Mainly because I dont think it should all be down to the Govt to help I should have some responsibility to support the child Nowadays youdont have to have children so you should take some resposibilit |
|
1 |
| More important |
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1 |
| More your responsibility than the taxpayers. Most people should try to support their children |
|
1 |
| Most one parent families are deliberately one parent familis in order to obtain the benefits |
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1 |
| Motre self respect for me & would hope to be qable to make better financial provision in the long term. Also better for the child to have a role model mother working rather than being dependent |
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1 |
| My daughter was an unmarried mother and she stopped at home to look after my grandson |
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| NEDD TO GET OFF BENIFITS |
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1 |
| Need to earn more money |
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1 |
| Need to have a choice like everybody else. |
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1 |
| Need to provide financial support & security |
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1 |
| No need for her to stay at home if child is of school age |
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1 |
| Not enough information |
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1 |
| Not reliant on handout from govt |
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1 |
| Once child at school free to work |
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1 |
| Once child is about 8 or 9, she shouldnt be a parasite on the govt. |
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1 |
| PROVIDE EXTRA MONEY FOR CHILD |
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1 |
| Probably be a practical thing would need money for mortgage & other costs |
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1 |
| Responsibility for child and not that of the rest |
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1 |
| Responsibility for upkeep of child |
|
1 |
| Responsible for child |
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1 |
| She is on her own - she should try to provide for her own child |
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1 |
| Should as it is her child and it's up to her to do her best for the child |
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1 |
| Should have a sense of responsidly,now the child is at school |
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1 |
| Should not rely on state benefits |
|
1 |
| Should support child if she can't get any other help |
|
1 |
| Should work to support the child |
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1 |
| Someone else in the family would be looking after the child, to enable me to work. |
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1 |
| Someone has to feed it,someone has to cloth it no one has the responsibility for it.a/e it is the parents responsibility to pay for the childs up keep. |
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1 |
| Sould support own child if possible |
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1 |
| THEY NEED A MOTHER THERE |
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| TO GIVE IT MORE THINGS SAME AS OTHER KIDS |
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1 |
| Thats how we were brought up |
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1 |
| The child comes first |
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1 |
| The child needs its parents there so the comfort of a mother is at home and on hand |
|
1 |
| The children would miss out if mother went to work. She should be there for them |
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1 |
| Time when child needs mother most |
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1 |
| To look after the child |
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1 |
| To meet the financial commitment of the child |
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1 |
| To provide the necessary financial resources |
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1 |
| Too many Lone mother today- govt policy should be to reduce no. of lone mothers |
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1 |
| WOULD DEPEND ON CIRCUMSTANCES |
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1 |
| WOULD WANT TO USE HER SKILLS AS A NURSE AND SUPPORT HER CHILD |
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1 |
| Well I've just done it with three of my own - I didn't feel it right to live on social security - it was my responsibility to look after them myself |
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1 |
| Whilst child is at school, no reason why she should not be out at work. |
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1 |
| Would depend on circumsatnce eg if family available to help |
|
1 |
| Would not not wish to live off the State |
|
1 |
| Would want to be able to prepare his meals |
|
1 |
| Would want to provide for my child |
|
1 |
| You appretiate more what you go out and earn more than what is given to you. |
|
1 |
| You can't always relie on other people |
|
1 |
| You cant generlize like this! |
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1 |
| Your responsiblity |
|
1 |
| a child has enough to put up with only one parent. and who do you think tht child wants when they come home from school 'MUM' |
|
1 |
| a child needs its mother there when it comes home from school-it would only be possible if it a job fitted in with school hours |
|
1 |
| a child needs support and to know where mum is |
|
1 |
| a child should always have its mother to hand at any time |
|
1 |
| a duty to provide certain things for their child - call it responsibility |
|
1 |
| a mothers place is to look after a child |
|
1 |
| ability to do things for child also helps person themselves |
|
1 |
| all children should have their mums at home |
|
1 |
| all parents duty to support child |
|
1 |
| always work to support chil and job satisfaction |
|
1 |
| anyone who has child should be prepared to support chid |
|
1 |
| as a lone mother there is presumably no income from another source and you would have to provide as much income as poosible to bringing up their child. |
|
1 |
| as child reaches school age the parent should start to pay their way again by working |
|
1 |
| be fed up at home all day |
|
1 |
| because I think I would have an opportunity to work during school hours rather than rely on benefits. |
|
1 |
| because I wouldnt want the government to support me totally I would want to help myself to a certain degree |
|
1 |
| because children need security of knowing that mum is at home |
|
1 |
| because feel i would want to support child myself |
|
1 |
| because he is my responsibility |
|
1 |
| because i believe in parental responsibilities t o look after your own children |
|
1 |
| because i chose to have the child so i have to do what i can to support it |
|
1 |
| because i could not afford to pay anyone else to look after the child when they come out of school |
|
1 |
| because i dont like how people are claiing benefits just sitting at homa and it feels right if you go out to work |
|
1 |
| because i feel i would prefer to if hours suitable |
|
1 |
| because i think she should bring up her own chil |
|
1 |
| because i wanted money, more than what i had got, i had a great damn mortgage to pay |
|
1 |
| because i would feel that i could not live off the state all the time.to meet other people and have a break and have a job really |
|
1 |
| because i would feel that i had a duty to support this child who i had brougt into the world and it was therefore my duty to look after and provide for this child |
|
1 |
| because i'd be at home when the child came home and a meal ready |
|
1 |
| because if you can afford to stay at home you should look after the child |
|
1 |
| because it is good to work but only if she could earn enough to keep the child & herself |
|
1 |
| because it is my child and i would be able to support the child better if i worked,in my day there was no help you just got on and worked |
|
1 |
| because it is my job to provide for them |
|
1 |
| because it is my resposnsibility |
|
1 |
| because it is their responsibility to provide for the child |
|
1 |
| because its her responsibilty especially if you choose to be a single mother. the country should not have to support them continually. people should not opt for children for an easy life |
|
1 |
| because its just being lazy to sit around all day |
|
1 |
| because its my child and i feel i should help support it |
|
1 |
| because its your child and you should do your utmost to support the child or help towards support of that child |
|
1 |
| because jobs available to fit in with school |
|
1 |
| because my duty is to look after and to find money |
|
1 |
| because nomoney have to earn money |
|
1 |
| because of freee choice |
|
1 |
| because of my work ethic, I would expect to go out to support the child, but would like to think that I had the choice of whether to work or not |
|
1 |
| because of problems with child care and holidays from school - eg you would need to find the right job |
|
1 |
| because of the time avaliable |
|
1 |
| because only a mother can look after all a childs needs properly |
|
1 |
| because she is mine my resopnsibility |
|
1 |
| because so many diffeerent circumstances involved needs of child |
|
1 |
| because the child is my responsibility,i would not expect to be helped by the state |
|
1 |
| because the child is too young to lool after itdelf |
|
1 |
| because then your'e not depending on the state and you are being independent it gives you a break new enviroment boost your confidence a/e no |
|
1 |
| because there is not enough benefirt from the state |
|
1 |
| because they need their parents, if you have children they are your responsiblity to look after them. a child needs someone at home to look after them. |
|
1 |
| because this is the way woman should behave |
|
1 |
| because this is what i did when my children were very young |
|
1 |
| because unless shes in a good job with school hours the children would be left on their own after school and that leads to out of control children- theres far too many of those already |
|
1 |
| because we would have a better standard of living as long as i could afford child-care costs. |
|
1 |
| because when the child is at school age, there are a lot more things that the child needs, and the mother is going to need more income coming in to support the child |
|
1 |
| because you have a responsibility to the child to provide for it because you bought it into the world |
|
1 |
| been through it myself - my own choice |
|
1 |
| being there for the choldren is important |
|
1 |
| believe before school the bonding process teaching the children love and affection |
|
1 |
| believe better for child to have mum at home |
|
1 |
| believe its her child not the states |
|
1 |
| believes child deserves one parent to be home after school |
|
1 |
| believes children need mother |
|
1 |
| benefit from mother at home |
|
1 |
| best for mother and child |
|
1 |
| better financial stability |
|
1 |
| better for child socially and for thei future |
|
1 |
| better for mother and child |
|
1 |
| better for the child for mother to be working rather than waiting at home for the child |
|
1 |
| better off working |
|
1 |
| better standard of life |
|
1 |
| better to stay at home |
|
1 |
| better upbringing for child |
|
1 |
| both important,if need to work money wise they might suffer, or if you did work they might suffer the other way. |
|
1 |
| cant |
|
1 |
| cant stand being at home all day |
|
1 |
| cause i just feel that you shuld go out to work to help towards the child upkeep |
|
1 |
| child cannot be properly looked after without money coming in |
|
1 |
| child care is extremely important |
|
1 |
| child comes first |
|
1 |
| child is at school mother can earn some money |
|
1 |
| child is being taken care of whilst in school |
|
1 |
| child is p2's responsibility |
|
1 |
| child needs a stable home life |
|
1 |
| child needs care |
|
1 |
| child needs its mother |
|
1 |
| child needs looking after |
|
1 |
| child needs me |
|
1 |
| child needs parents to be at home |
|
1 |
| child needs securityw |
|
1 |
| child needs special care at early age only mother can do it |
|
1 |
| child needs their parent whilst they are small |
|
1 |
| child needs you especially in early years/thinks its mothers job to care for her children.ae |
|
1 |
| child worries if mum not at home when he returns from school |
|
1 |
| children are not settled without knowing parent will be with them - it should not be like that |
|
1 |
| children need mother at thi sage |
|
1 |
| children need mothers |
|
1 |
| children need mum at home |
|
1 |
| children need their mother after school |
|
1 |
| children need their parents |
|
1 |
| childs needs |
|
1 |
| circumstances dictate to the mother |
|
1 |
| conflict between looking after the child properly and supporting it |
|
1 |
| costs of child home etc is increasing cant have everything for nothing |
|
1 |
| couldnt live on state 100 per cent |
|
1 |
| daughter to look after ensure daughters future life insurance |
|
1 |
| depaedns on salary |
|
1 |
| depend on circs |
|
1 |
| depend on circumstance and on chil care available,if couldnt afford child care would have no choice;if any adequate support may not need to out to work |
|
1 |
| depending on her finanial situation if she is without money then she should go to work |
|
1 |
| depends |
|
1 |
| depends if she is back when get back from school |
|
1 |
| depends on attitude/dont like living off the state/should provide for your own.ae |
|
1 |
| depends on child care available in holidays |
|
1 |
| depends on child,depends on my financial circumstances |
|
1 |
| depends on circumstance |
|
1 |
| depends on circumstances |
|
2 |
| depends on income |
|
1 |
| depends on individual |
|
1 |
| depends on personal circumstances |
|
1 |
| depends on the full circumstances |
|
1 |
| depends on wages |
|
1 |
| difficult to choose |
|
1 |
| do best thing for yourself & the child |
|
1 |
| do feel a mother should go out to work to support her child rather than expecting someone else to do it |
|
1 |
| do not believe in government responsibilitu |
|
1 |
| do not want to have hand outs |
|
1 |
| does not want to feel state is keeping me |
|
1 |
| doesn't believe in drawing on the state |
|
1 |
| dont know just feel like I should really |
|
1 |
| dont know particular circumstances |
|
1 |
| dont like sponging |
|
1 |
| dont see why the government should supoor |
|
1 |
| due to own background & way brought up |
|
1 |
| earn a living to support myself and child not rely on go vt. |
|
1 |
| ed/k,she might be bored |
|
1 |
| even though they are in school you still have the problem of getting him to school safe and beeing there when he comes home |
|
1 |
| every body who can work should work |
|
1 |
| every one should be responsible for their own actions |
|
1 |
| everyone has duty to support family |
|
1 |
| experiential learning |
|
1 |
| extra money |
|
1 |
| family come first |
|
1 |
| feel i had a duty to go out work |
|
1 |
| feel haveto go to work |
|
1 |
| feel i wuld want ot be here when the child gets back. A CHILD SHOULD BE LOOKED AFTER AND HELPERD WITH THEIR HOMEWORK |
|
1 |
| feel obliged not to take money from state |
|
1 |
| feel she should have own choice |
|
1 |
| feel that a parent sould be at home |
|
1 |
| feel that i should be supporting child and home |
|
1 |
| feel that once kids are at school you can give them better quality on life by working |
|
1 |
| financial security |
|
1 |
| financial support |
|
1 |
| financially better off to give child better standard of living |
|
1 |
| financially independent |
|
1 |
| first 5 yrs are important to be at home |
|
1 |
| for extra things what would she live on otherhdm\ would she have help from govae\no |
|
1 |
| for her own good and the child as long as she is home for return from school/both have benefit of socialising and self confidence of having own income |
|
1 |
| for income |
|
1 |
| for own independance should go to work but be at home when the child comes home from school |
|
1 |
| for stability there is no one else there if they are ill and had to come home, its a difficult one. its worrying for a mother not to know there someone not there for the child. |
|
1 |
| for support and love |
|
1 |
| for swlf esteem, self worth |
|
1 |
| for the benefit of the child-stable home environment |
|
1 |
| for your own self esteem and feel more independentthe child has better quality of life |
|
1 |
| get income support family |
|
1 |
| get out there and earn some money to support her |
|
1 |
| give the child a chance |
|
1 |
| give the child all the thing they need |
|
1 |
| give the kid the best in life |
|
1 |
| going out to work is the best way to improve your child's lifestyle and your own too |
|
1 |
| good morals |
|
1 |
| got herself in to the situation and she should get herself out |
|
1 |
| has a responsibility to look after child until it can support itself |
|
1 |
| has already received money from govt. and no point in staying at home when child is a t school |
|
1 |
| has never thought about it |
|
1 |
| has opportunity to go out |
|
1 |
| has time |
|
1 |
| have a responsibility |
|
1 |
| have a responsibility to child to provide for it |
|
1 |
| have no experience of children |
|
1 |
| help to suppor myself |
|
1 |
| herresponsibility |
|
1 |
| higher standard of living achieved through work |
|
1 |
| hours to suit childcare |
|
1 |
| house to run, must play mother and father, no time to go out to work. |
|
1 |
| i cant see myself at home all day |
|
1 |
| i don't know how i'd feel at the time |
|
1 |
| i feel a mother should look after the child, she's had the child & its better for her to look after the child than anyone else. |
|
1 |
| i feel that she should take the child to school & then go out to work like i did.be back when they come out of school. not latch key kid. |
|
1 |
| i have to do the best i can, she is my responsibility |
|
1 |
| i intend to do this because i like work and will have more time |
|
1 |
| i like to contribute |
|
1 |
| i think everyone should support their own |
|
1 |
| i think that i do like to go out to work. I arrange my life around my working life, but that is just my choice |
|
1 |
| i would be more independent and not have to rely on other people |
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| i would feel obliged to bring money into the house |
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| i would just feel morally responsible to do so and not be reliany on state benefits |
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| i would like to contribute to my childs costs and well being |
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| i would like to contribute to the up keep of my child rather than rely on the government |
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| i would like to stay with them till 4 because i feel they need their mother. there is a lot you can teach them before someone else. |
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| i would not want to depend on the state for total support |
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| i would nt like my child,s formative years to have little contact |
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| i would sooner do that than leave it in the care of someone else |
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| i would want only a part time job so i could be there when the child came home from school |
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| i would want to be able to provide for my child and provide a certain amount of luxeries |
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| i would want to support the child |
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| i would want to support the child as much as poss myself |
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| i would want to work for my own satisfaction |
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| i wouldnt feel there would be adequate support from any other source |
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| i wouldnt want to be dependent on the stste |
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| i'd go to work while child was at school |
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| i've always woeked as ihave wanted to,i can't decide |
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| i've done that with all the family and it made them better people |
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| ibity to look after the child as I was resposible for bringing it into the world. |
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| if at school amble time to go to work to provide for child |
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| if child at school mother should work |
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| if child goes to school she has so many hours in the day to do part time job, until the child comes home. providing pay is sufficient to meet her needs |
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| if could get a job to fit in with school hours you would get it, but if it's not possible you would have to stay at home |
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| if have free time with child at school and opportunity to go work,should do so |
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| if i go to work, someone else has to care for it |
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| if irresponsible to have children on your own you should have to support them |
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| if it is possible we all have aduty to contribute to society and personally your self esteem is higher |
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| if it was at school all day it didnt need me hanging around aND I should be at work earning to bring the child up |
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| if only parent child needs you there child does not want feel abandoned |
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| if the child is at school/no reason not to go to work |
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| if they are at school you can go and earn the money to look after them |
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| if they are at school you could be out at work earning some money and for your own sanity |
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| if they had no money or food then they would need to work |
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| if they lose one parent the other becomes more important |
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| if they want things they should go out and work for it |
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| if you can work you should contribute |
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| if you have a child you should be responsible for it - rather than relying on the government which should be a last resort |
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| if you have a decent wage you can supply more |
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| if you just sit at home you are wasting the day if child at school.More beneficial for the child |
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| ihave always worked -suldnt rely on the state |
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| important for children to have parents with them |
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| important for mother to get back into work/career |
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| important for the health of the parent and child |
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| important to be there (at home) for the child(ren) |
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| important to stay at home for child sake. |
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| improve std. of living |
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| in her own interests to go out to work |
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| in its formative years needs someone who is close to it most of the time |
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| in my heart duty is to stay at home but in present world this is not possible |
|
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| in order to improve standard of living for my family |
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| in the absence of any body else it is yopur responsibility |
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| income increase |
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| independence |
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| independence for the mother most people prefer their independence |
|
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| individual cicumsances-may be possible to get work during school hours and still be responsible for child outside of school hours |
|
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| is important thaT child has mum at home as lone parent,not out at woek all day |
|
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| it depends on family circumstances at the time |
|
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| it depends on what she earns but it is her duty to provide for children you have brought into the world and not depend on other people to do it. |
|
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| it gives a child stability |
|
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| it is hard - seen my daughter struggling - you need help if you work |
|
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| it is nobody elses fault only the couple who had the child. it should be the mother who looks after the child financially |
|
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| it is not the responsibility of society to support the child |
|
1 |
| it is up to her to decide |
|
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| it is your child after all;you should look after it |
|
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| it is your choice whether yo wabt to bring it into the world and if at school parent should have time to do part time work |
|
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| it would be right for me |
|
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| it wouldnt hurt to get a part time job to get a bit of money |
|
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| it's just how i feel, rather than being given something for nothing. |
|
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| it's your child and you want the best for it |
|
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| ithink part time work is ok |
|
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| itis your duty to support the child,that is if she could get work. |
|
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| its a catch 22 i would feel i had to support the child as i feel that is what i would do,but child care is so expensive its really difficult a/eits to give your child waht they need and self gratifict |
|
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| its difficult and depends on the circumstances |
|
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| its her duty to support her child |
|
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| its just nature |
|
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| its my child not government s child. i'd work while they were at school |
|
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| its my fault they're there - this is what i'd choose to do |
|
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| its not a duty just a responsibility |
|
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| its not the childs fault thats the situation-child has to be looked after. |
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| its the wayI've been brought up. |
|
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| its up to us to go out to work not expect other people to keep us |
|
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| its very difficult on 1 hand need money on other child needs parental support |
|
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| its your responsibility |
|
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| iwould arrange for child care whilst i was at work i would not stay around the house all day unnesscarily |
|
1 |
| jobs are hard to find that fit in with the hours that balance the childs needs as wellof |
|
1 |
| just havent been able to make my mind up, be nice to go out to work but feel kids need me at home |
|
1 |
| l should find a part time job because I should be at home when child comes home from school |
|
1 |
| less dependency on the state |
|
1 |
| look after own child |
|
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| look at individual circumstances |
|
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| lot depends on the child minding arrangements-you need people you can trust |
|
1 |
| make money |
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| make sure they are safe,make sure everything is alright for them and that they go to school in morning |
|
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| maternal feeling |
|
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| mine would be the responsibility |
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| money from state is inadequate, need to top it up for a better standard of living |
|
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| morally bound to support myself ae i know people who have done it successfulyae |
|
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| more convenient to go to work once the child was at school, would want to earn some money to support it. |
|
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| more for my sanity than theirs |
|
1 |
| more income |
|
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| more income more interest in life |
|
1 |
| more money |
|
1 |
| more money to spend on child |
|
1 |
| most mothers, that's what they want to do, the child should be with her |
|
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| most of time child is in care of school and i would feel that i had duty to support child |
|
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| mother's own choice - |
|
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| mothers duty to bring up children properly |
|
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| mothers love their children and it would be nearly impossible to keep a roof over their heads without an income |
|
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| mothers should be at home when children are at home but not when at school. If this does not affect the child. |
|
1 |
| motivation its what drives me |
|
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| my child |
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| my child my re |
|
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| my child my responsibility |
|
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| my outlook |
|
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| my responsibility could not leave child with child minder |
|
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| my responsibility must provide |
|
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| my responsibility to support child |
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| natural thing to do |
|
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| need aparent;care and attention rather than a stranger |
|
1 |
| need for mother to feel independent |
|
1 |
| need information on living circumstances |
|
1 |
| need money but need someone at home to be there when child gets hime |
|
1 |
| need not to be at home all the time |
|
1 |
| need to help out for cloths, food, etc. |
|
1 |
| need to provide for child benefits mother when she goes ou to work |
|
1 |
| needed moneyso worked |
|
1 |
| needs mot6hers care |
|
1 |
| needs someone with her when needed dont beleive in latchkey |
|
1 |
| needs the money and should go to work |
|
1 |
| needs to earn more money to support child |
|
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| no |
|
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| no info about needs or circumstances of mother & child |
|
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| no major loss of time with child |
|
1 |
| no need to be at home whilst child was in school |
|
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| no other commitments as child is at school. should work school hours |
|
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| no reason |
|
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| no reason why she should not go out to work. a better standard of living |
|
1 |
| no reason why mother should not earn some money |
|
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| no special duty to do either |
|
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| nobody like a mother to look after a child |
|
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| not aspecial duty |
|
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| not enough time e.g. hours to go out to work dont agree with latch key kids |
|
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| not expect govt to pay for indiscretions |
|
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| not to be a burden on the country |
|
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| not want to depend on anyone else |
|
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| not worth working |
|
1 |
| nothing to add |
|
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| obtaining job means support not necessary-enabling others to receive it |
|
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| once in school get employment to fit in with school hours so can support yourself |
|
1 |
| only if worked school hours |
|
1 |
| only one paent |
|
1 |
| own independance/dont want hand outs |
|
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| parental responsibility |
|
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| parents believe they have a duty to support their children but it is difficult to find a job with suitable hours |
|
1 |
| part time work |
|
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| pay some taxes to repay what she has recieved |
|
1 |
| people ppay too much tax - so you do what you can to help |
|
1 |
| perhaps i might feel guilty that I had relied on benefits for too long and that I shoulf be doing something |
|
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| personal choice |
|
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| prefer to support self and child |
|
1 |
| preverance is to stay at home but i do work cos you have to due to finances |
|
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| pride would make me go to work because the government could not provide all a child needsa |
|
1 |
| probably go to work |
|
1 |
| proper home /more attention |
|
1 |
| provide aquality of life |
|
1 |
| provide better standard of living beyond benefits threshold |
|
1 |
| provide better upbringing |
|
1 |
| provide funds for child |
|
1 |
| provide oneself for child |
|
1 |
| provided child is happy and stable but if not, situation would change |
|
1 |
| raise standard of living |
|
1 |
| reasons for and against |
|
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| respondent was widowed v young & did support her children, but she worked from home |
|
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| respondents own son died so feels its imp to look after children for as long as necessary |
|
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| responsibility, independence |
|
1 |
| responsible for child and I should make an income |
|
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| right thing to do |
|
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| right to do what you want |
|
1 |
| role modeel for child self reliant |
|
1 |
| safety |
|
1 |
| school takes over education of child, allowing mother to work |
|
1 |
| sd |
|
1 |
| security and bonding |
|
1 |
| see note |
|
1 |
| self respest and setting good e.g. for child and toprovide materially |
|
1 |
| sense of independence |
|
1 |
| sense of responsiblity and hope to earn more |
|
1 |
| she and the child might find it difficuly yo be together 24 hours a day |
|
1 |
| she has a special duty to support herself if at all possible |
|
1 |
| she is ultimately responsible for the child |
|
1 |
| she needs money/has time on her hands withonly one child to care for and would be benefitial to both of them/not tied to each other/have more interests to offer each other |
|
1 |
| she should be free to work while the child is in school, but should always be at home when the child is at home as I think it has an effect on the way the child grows up/- |
|
1 |
| she should choose because she should not be cohersed to do one or the other her choice to return to work or not |
|
1 |
| she should do as she chooses |
|
1 |
| she should work to help but also give help with care after school |
|
1 |
| shes at school & you would be bored at home./ae |
|
1 |
| should be able to choose |
|
1 |
| should be left to mother to decide what she should do |
|
1 |
| should begin paying her own way and not fully rely on the government |
|
1 |
| should choose |
|
1 |
| should earn money to support the child |
|
1 |
| should have opportunity while child at school |
|
1 |
| should help myself more not rely on handouts |
|
1 |
| should not expect govt to provide all support for everything and an effort should be made to get at least part time work |
|
1 |
| should not have children if they cant afford |
|
1 |
| should not rely on state to support child |
|
1 |
| should only work during school hours |
|
1 |
| should work |
|
1 |
| shul do as i choose |
|
1 |
| so that both can live |
|
1 |
| so that it would pay for lunches and other costs for the child |
|
1 |
| some one has to |
|
1 |
| someone has to provide and it shold be me |
|
1 |
| stand on own feet family would help with child care |
|
1 |
| standard of living |
|
1 |
| statebenefits are sonridiclously low that they cany survive |
|
1 |
| support family and top up benefits |
|
1 |
| supposed to stay with children whilst growing up |
|
1 |
| take care of small boy mothers priority |
|
1 |
| take part time job while at school |
|
1 |
| the child deserves the love and care for proper development |
|
1 |
| the child is of an age that i could go to work during school hours |
|
1 |
| the need of the child to have mother's support when coming home from school |
|
1 |
| the way i feel - to fill the time |
|
1 |
| the years are so short before they go to school and the influence of the home is the most important thing in their lives |
|
1 |
| their responsibly |
|
1 |
| there should be a secure thing in the home rather than a latch-key kid depending on other people to pick them up from school. |
|
1 |
| they have to be fed & clothed |
|
1 |
| they need the care as they are young |
|
1 |
| think people should work even if only voluntary |
|
1 |
| thinks parents should stay with child |
|
1 |
| to be less dependent on benefits & achieve some confidence |
|
1 |
| to be more financialy secure |
|
1 |
| to be there when child comes home |
|
1 |
| to become independent from government support |
|
1 |
| to bring child up properly, show an example |
|
1 |
| to bring in th e money to be able to afford tp bring up the child in the best way you can/pay any child care yourself out of the income |
|
1 |
| to earn money to support child |
|
1 |
| to earn money to support the child |
|
1 |
| to earn money- |
|
1 |
| to gain pride to earn own money and not to be on social security |
|
1 |
| to get a better life/both for self and child |
|
1 |
| to give attention |
|
1 |
| to give security |
|
1 |
| to give the child a more stable and secure life |
|
1 |
| to give the child the best in life without depending on state benefits etc. to display a sense of independence |
|
1 |
| to jmprove the quality of their life |
|
1 |
| to maintain carreer structure |
|
1 |
| to make a better life for the child |
|
1 |
| to make ends meet |
|
1 |
| to meet new people |
|
1 |
| to provide a few extra things |
|
1 |
| to provide better for child |
|
1 |
| to provide for her child... |
|
1 |
| to provide for them instead of taking benefits |
|
1 |
| to provide her with the things i thought she deserved,i needed more than the dole so i went to work |
|
1 |
| to provide the best for child as a parant you should do your best for your child |
|
1 |
| to provide the extra luxuries in life-people nowadays expect too much from the government |
|
1 |
| to raise standard of income =better living standard for child |
|
1 |
| to set aN example |
|
1 |
| to support child financially, being available outside school hrs |
|
1 |
| to support the child and to not depend entirely on benefits |
|
1 |
| to teach the child manners to be well behaved and to teach it "citizenship" |
|
1 |
| to try and meet their needs |
|
1 |
| to try and stay off state benefits and get on better |
|
1 |
| today's troubles cause by mothers not being available to children.not there when they need them. |
|
1 |
| too many people sponing off state |
|
1 |
| too many rely on the state;could work part time |
|
1 |
| too much of a struggle on benefits lon term prospects |
|
1 |
| tried to find a job whilst child at school but not after they returned from school |
|
1 |
| try and do as much as you possibley can to improve their lifes [the children[ |
|
1 |
| up to the indiidual |
|
1 |
| very important for child to have mothers influence while child is young |
|
1 |
| very important to care for your own child |
|
1 |
| very important to child's development |
|
1 |
| want to get out |
|
1 |
| wants best of both worlds but first duty to child |
|
1 |
| was in that situation and just could not choose |
|
1 |
| way i am - independence,because im the mother |
|
1 |
| we all have a duty to support ourselves |
|
1 |
| we may not be able to build a future for our children build child to be ready for the future you need fvinances good standrd of living |
|
1 |
| well think you shouldnt expect everything for nothing but I think you should have the benefits that are going |
|
1 |
| well all children need a mother to look after themExp/ every child needs a mother at home and most mothers don't like to leave them. a/e |
|
1 |
| well i personally would want to.i'd want to give the child the best things and that way i'd earn more working than on benefits |
|
1 |
| well i think the children is where your duty lies i had 4 children and i never worked,you go without things and it is tough but you get by you don't go to work with children to bring up |
|
1 |
| well to give her everything she wanted and better her education |
|
1 |
| well, i just think that if you are capable of working you should do it |
|
1 |
| wellI don't think you should expect other people to look after your child |
|
1 |
| whilst child at school |
|
1 |
| why should the state support me |
|
1 |
| with child at school time available to provide support for own family |
|
1 |
| work part time, to contribute to keep of child |
|
1 |
| work provides you with an identity gives you a sociAl life gives you a break from the children |
|
1 |
| working is ok if you can find good childcare for the summer holidays and can be back from work before the child at other times. |
|
1 |
| would choose hours would not to do something else |
|
1 |
| would depend |
|
1 |
| would feel wrong about acceptong money from the state |
|
1 |
| would not expect someone else to keep the child |
|
1 |
| would not trust child with anyone eslse |
|
1 |
| would not want to stay at home |
|
1 |
| would want to stay at home whether or not I was a lone mother |
|
1 |
| would work school times and be at home for the child |
|
1 |
| wouldnt want anyone else to look after them |
|
1 |
| wouldnt want to sit around all day doing nothing |
|
1 |
| you brought child into world/ you should look after it |
|
1 |
| you don't get enough money from benefits and childcare and you should go out to work to support the child |
|
1 |
| you have a choice to have children or not and if you do you should support them |
|
1 |
| you have to cloth and feed child-pay for dancing lessons etc.new shoes child= |
|
1 |
| you have to support your child |
|
1 |
| you have yr child and do the best for yr child go out and find a little job. |
|
1 |
| you must consider the child ae could be problems with child other wise |
|
1 |
| you want to train the child in your own ways & values |
|
1 |
| you would have to get a job to fit in with school hours |
|
1 |
| your child is your responsibilityp |
|
1 |
| your child not building the same bond |
|
1 |
| your responsibility to look after them |
|
1 |
| your responsibilty not a state problem |
|
1 |
| your responsility to look after child and gives you more confidence to bring up child |
|
1 |
| youve had the child,youve got to support it |
|
1 |
| ypu have to do what ever is required |
|
1 |
| yu could give the child a better life |
|
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